Sunday, 3 February 2019

CHOOSING A PARTNER AND DESTINY; THE BIG MISTAKE


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*CHOOSING A PARTNER AND DESTINY; THE BIG MISTAKE*

By Adnan Adams Mohammed

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A CHAT WITH  SISTER AISHA AND ADAMS

AISHA:  Salaam alaikum brother, I heard you help Hookup people for ISLAMIC marriage

ADAMS:  Walaikum Salaam, yes you are right but with the WILL of Allah

AISHA: I want an educated man because I am also educated, working and has ISLAMIC knowledge

ADAMS:  But your target shouldn't be 'educated Muslims'
But
Islamic learned

AISHA:  Both is very important in my view

ADAMS:  Not not...Follow the counseling
And throw away the petty petty mistakes you ladies make in life and later shatter your life
Choosing a partner is about
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*Character  and deen/religion*

And not 'education'

You ladies are no where wiser than the Prophet S. A. W

AISHA:  Very true, but education is a plus to all the things the prophet stated

ADAMS:  Was there secular education during the Prophet time?

*We have feed our minds with soo many life toxic ...which is affecting our true ISLAMIC life*

AISHA:  Very true

I beg you let drop it OK. I know there wasn't. lol

ADAMS:  U see u a not ready to humble to learn the right

Seriously... Some of educated ladies must slow down

I have dealt with a lot of educated ladies... And you all seems to have same misconception about choosing a partner.... Which is very wrong notion.... And that mostly land this 'career ladies' in wrong marriage

So when I meet you... I prefer you calm down to learn and accept the right ISLAMIC teachings

AISAH:  ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚where are we running to

ADAMS:  *The Prophet Muhammad s. A. W... Emphasized on CHARACTER AND RELIGION*

*Today you will see a so called educated Muslim Lady and she thinks she control her DESTINY and Soul*

AISHA:  No doubt, parents to look out for Deen and Character. Agreed

Hmmm

ADAMS:  We have few educated Muslims... But with corrupt morals

*POLYGAMY*

ADAMS:  I know again you will say you don't like second or third wife

AISHA:  ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

I might agree to second but on condition that the man is taking very good care of his family and has extra to take care of me And the family we will also form

ADAMS:  Wrong conditions

Example... Before, Asuma Banda was richest man in Ghana but he is not today

It is Allah who provides

Some family were poor but after the man add a wife.. They become rich

Some family were rich... But after marriage became poor

AISHA:  Hmmm

ADAMS:  *FAITH ... TRUE FAITH IN ALLAH and not lip services...Is the key ingredient to successful marriage and not materialistic things*

AISHA:  But do you agree for a man to add another wife if he can't take care of the first family

ADAMS:  It happened by the Prophet order during his time

Take care... As in what means?

AISHA:  Feeding, Good shelter, Clothing, Education, And some level of comfort,

ADAMS:  Mansion right? Secular education is not compulsory.
What is that comfort you are referring to?

AISHA:  ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ My Tommy

ADAMS:  U see how society has BRAINWASHED US Against our ISLAMIC teachings

AISHA:  ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜œ

ADAMS:  And you ladies will be jumping around... I am a class lady

*You will die and become a dust again. Think more about the hereafter.... And comfort on earth...

*There is never satisfactory comfort on earth*

Illusion of satan

AISHA:  Hmmm. Very true


*DESTINY*


ADAMS:  *Maybe you are destined to be a fourth wife to a poor man*

That is where your happiness in marriage might be

But you see yourself as educated so you are looking for educated guy...  Who will use and dump you with nice excuses

AISHA:  Very true

If that's the case, there is nothing that will change

ADAMS:  Something can delay your destiny...or cut it short

*You have power of choice... Or will power*

That is why there is judgement

Allah gave us a chance to choose between bad and good...

And Allah sent the Book of Guidance to guide you on what is good....

AISHA:  Yh because if it solely out of your control why should you judge

Understood

ADAMS:  Life is as simple as this

But we have made it World Cup... Just killing ourselves younger

AISHA:  Hmmm
No containment, feel something is missing

ADAMS:  Married people still feel they lack something.... Because of competition..

Then adultery comes in

AISHA:  Hmmm, may Allah save us oo

No where cool

ADAMS:  Sure


*WRONG MEANING OF LOVE*

ADAMS:  Then again you ladies have Deceitful and Foolishly understanding of LOVE

So ladies are always complaining of bad marriage due to wrong choice made

U ladies only deceives your own self and then cheating yourselves to useless guys instead

In the name of love

NB: Some...  Anyway

AISHA:  Hmmm
May Allah guide us all

ADAMS:  You see you are now calling for Allah...
We are really lost..

But we normally think we are the masters on earth

*We forget of our DESTINY is in the control of ALLAH..*

*Allah's will... Is the best*

And NOT what you will or wish

AISHA:  Very true

ADAMS:
*What Allaah has preserved in the knowledge of the unseen with Him cannot be known and what is not known is unlimited*


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